Thanks so much Betty, I’m really glad you liked this! Yes absolutely those are excellent points about not wanting to always separating taking and receiving, and how it can be great for people who’re intro trance too.

I do hope we get to chat more about all these things in person at some point 🙂

MJ

this is an awesome description, particularly about how it’s helpful and why it may be challenging. well, really, it’s pretty much always challenging when you let yourself notice where you get lost or stuck 🙂

a couple things i’d add –

i look at the 3 minute game and the wheel as something like a practice. it’s a practice in taking giving and receiving apart so you can experience them. you won’t necessarily want to live that way all the time.

and mosher’s 3 styles – yes, useful. i find that folks who are into trance also love the wheel because it gives you a great opportunity to focus on your experience without over-focusing on the other person who is giving to you (either their body or their action).

and yes, i agree – it’s hot!

thanks so much, betty