You can download my free books on consent, relationships, sex, sexuality, and gender as pdfs here. They contains my collected writing on these themes.

• Consent
• Relationships
• Sex
• Sexuality
• Gender

Please note that some of these pieces were written a good while ago now, before many of the most profound shifts that the world – and I – have recently been through. I hope that it is of interest to see how my ideas have evolved. But please do be mindful of the context in which they were written as they may not always represent either my own, or culturally, current thinking/practice on these topics. For my most recent thinking around these topics, check out my books with Alex Iantaffi – How to Understand Your Gender, How to Understand Your Sexuality, and How to Understand Your Relationships.

Also around consent…

• This consent video that my collaborator Justin Hancock and I made introduces our handshake activity for exploring consent. You can read more of Justin’s ideas about consent in his book Can We Talk About Consent? 
• On megjohnandjustin.com you can find podcast episodes where we discuss consent in relation to: romantic relationships, sickness and power, as well as dealing with deliberate non-consent, being accountable, and making consent your aim.
• I discuss consent on these podcast episodes and videos: Consent, Intentional relationships and consent, Consent post lockdown, The conditions of consent, Survivors in lockdown.