Consent, Relationships, Sex, Gender

You can download my free books on consent, relationships, sex, sexuality, and gender as pdfs here. They contains my collected writing on these themes.


Note that some of these pieces were written a good while ago now, before many of the most profound shifts that the world – and I – have recently been through. I hope that it is of interest to see how my ideas have evolved. But please do be mindful of the context in which they were written as they may not always represent either my own, or culturally, current thinking/practice on these topics. For my most recent thinking around consent, check out my book with Alex Iantaffi – How to Understand Your Relationships.

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