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A spacious new year, and sub-stackers

  • by Meg-John Barker
  • 8 January
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A second new year post from us to let you know that our friend, Daniel Morrison, has published a great post on substack about how we...
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A new ‘world’ and book updates

  • by Meg-John Barker
  • 2 January
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Happy new year from all of us to all of you – those of you who mark a year turning around now. It feels appropriate...
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Love Uncommon courses: Mapping Your Relationships and Coming Home

  • by Meg-John Barker
  • 24 November
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Here at Rewriting the Rules we’re happy to be in ongoing relationship with Love Uncommon – a collective whose work is very much aligned with our...
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TenderQueer research/practice for The Polyphony

  • by Meg-John Barker
  • 23 September
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We’ve just had a piece published as part of a QUEERCIRCLE takeover on The Polyphony web platform. We’ve been huge fans of The Polyphony for...
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Mapping your relationship ecosystem

  • by Meg-John Barker
  • 26 August
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Two of our favourite folks have recently got together to produce an online course on Mapping Your Relationship Ecosystem. Sophia Graham from Love Uncommon –...
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Reset Your Nervous System Super Conference

  • by Meg-John Barker
  • 2 July
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Now that my new book with Alex Iantaffi, How to Understand Your Relationships, is out in the world (the last book in our How to Understand Your… series),...
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New Zines: Plural Tarot, and Plural Tarot Companion

  • by Meg-John Barker
  • 18 June
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This post describes the thinking and feeling behind our new zine Plural Tarot (and Plural Tarot Companion). It takes the form of an interview between...
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JKP Writing Prize: Everyday Disability and Chronic Illness

  • by Meg-John Barker
  • 30 May
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The JKP Writing Prize for 2025 has just been announced with a theme of disability. JKP are the publishers of the books that we write...
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Love Uncommon: DBT for practitioners and more

  • by Meg-John Barker
  • 16 May
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A couple of weeks ago we recorded a video about plural/inner relationships with Sophia at Love Uncommon for a new online course that she and...
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Attachment, Trauma & Toxic Relationships Super Conference

  • by Meg-John Barker
  • 14 April
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  Now that our new book, How to Understand Your Relationships, is out in the world (the last book in our How to Understand Your… series), Alex...
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