DR. MEG-JOHN BARKER

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My queero: S. Bear Bergman

  • by Meg-John Barker
  • 11 April
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I was so grateful recently to be asked to write a piece for The Queer Bible: a website that invites queer folks to write about..
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Rewriting the Rules: Second Edition!

  • by Meg-John Barker
  • 9 April
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The second edition of my book Rewriting the Rules is out now. Look – here’s the cool new cover and everything! This is pretty huge..
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Love & commitment
Self

Using New Relationship Energy (NRE) to Open Up rather than Close Down

  • by Meg-John Barker
  • 28 March
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I thought I’d write a bit about New Relationship Energy (NRE) here (no particular reason, nothing to see here). It’s a topic that the wonderful..
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All About Writing

  • by Meg-John Barker
  • 4 March
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This post is dedicated to Alessandro Pedori. Happy birthday! … I’ve been meaning to write about writing for a while. When I went back through my..
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Gender

Non-binary gender and LGBT history

  • by Meg-John Barker
  • 16 February
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February is LGBT history month which is always a busy time for me, hence few blog posts. I’m taking part in several events, mostly talking..
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Sex

Podcast: Who to talk to about sex, and how

  • by Meg-John Barker
  • 9 January
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Just a reminder that relationships and sex educator extraordinaire Justin Hancock and I have a podcast over on megjohnandjustin.com. If you enjoy listening to stuff..
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Self

New Year, New Zine: Plural Selves

  • by Meg-John Barker
  • 31 December
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To mark the turning of the year I’ve made a new zine about one of the ideas that I’ve found the most helpful during the..
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Conflict & break-up

Hell is other people?

  • by Meg-John Barker
  • 30 December
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I’ve been looking through old blog posts and bringing them together in one place over the holiday season. Here’s one I wrote back in 2011..
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Gender

2017 Review: The Transgender Moral Panic

  • by Meg-John Barker
  • 27 December
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Today there’s a piece by me on the trans moral panic of 2017 in The Conversation. You can read that article here, as well as an..
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Love & commitment
Self

Rewriting the Rules of the Festive Season

  • by Meg-John Barker
  • 30 November
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Next year the second edition of my book Rewriting the Rules is coming out. As I was making the edits for the new (hopefully improved)..
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