On 12th November I’ll be speaking on a panel for Ladybeard magazine on mental health. I wrote a piece for their website here about my...
I just spent the whole weekend and two excellent events on relationships: Queer polyday in Leicester, and the Polyamory, Consensual Non-Monogamy and Relationship Anarchy day in...
Earlier this year I spoke at a panel at the SICK! Festival about normal sex: why people want so much to be normal, and why...
Here’s a blog post which I did about normal sex for the Sick! Festival which I’ll be taking part in up in Manchester in March. These ideas...
On Valentine’s day my youngest sister sends cards to seven of her friends, some of whom are single and some in relationships. She’s been doing...
A post from 2012 announcing the launch of the Enduring Love? Project. I ended up publishing a self-help book based on this project in 2016:...
The common idea of the conventional relationship is of a monogamous, long-term relationship between a man and a woman, based on them falling in love,...
In 2011 The London Natural History Museum put on a series of events in connection with its Sexual Nature exhibition. I spoke about relationship diversity at the...
This was the first blog post that I wrote on the topic of porn. It’s an idea that I fleshed out more recently in my...