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BDSM 101: Finding out more about kink

  • by Meg-John Barker
  • 11 February
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This week I’m blogging about kink up to the film release of Fifty Shades of Grey. Yesterday was an introduction. Today I’m focusing on how to...
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BDSM 101 (or what to do and what not to do from Fifty Shades of Grey)

  • by Meg-John Barker
  • 10 February
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As somebody who has researched with BDSM communities for over a decade, and written about the Fifty Shades books, I thought it’d be useful to...
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Why be normal?

  • by Meg-John Barker
  • 9 February
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Here’s a blog post which I did about normal sex for the Sick! Festival which I’ll be taking part in up in Manchester in March. These ideas...
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Buzzfeed new year tips

  • by Meg-John Barker
  • 9 January
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Wow I made it onto one of those Buzzfeed lists with a couple of my (anti) new year resolution tips! It was part of a selection...
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Self-help on the radio!

  • by Meg-John Barker
  • 1 January
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Yesterday I was included in the Radio 4 programme talking about self-help in general and Rewriting the Rules in particular. You can catch the episode...
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New Year Resolutions

  • by Meg-John Barker
  • 31 December
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It’s that time again! As people who have read this blog before will know, I’m not a huge fan of New Year resolutions. First because...
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2014 in review

  • by Meg-John Barker
  • 30 December
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The WordPress.com stats helper monkeys prepared a 2014 annual report for this blog. Here’s an excerpt: The concert hall at the Sydney Opera House holds...
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Monogamy

  • by Meg-John Barker
  • 15 December
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Since Rewriting the Rules was published I sometimes get asked to do email interviews with journalists on various topics. Some of these get published in...
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Dealing with the tough stuff: The value of noticing

  • by Meg-John Barker
  • 4 December
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This blog post has been bubbling away for a while. I want to write about the process that I’ve found helpful when struggling with difficult...
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Sex in long term relationships

  • by Meg-John Barker
  • 1 December
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Since Rewriting the Rules was published I sometimes get asked to do email interviews with journalists on various topics. Some of these get published in...
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