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The inevitability of treating partners as things? Romance in Ruby Sparks (and why I like the ending)

  • by Meg-John Barker
  • 29 April
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Recently I got round to watching last year’s Ruby Sparks on DVD. I’d been looking forward to watching this film for some time because it...
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Embracing uncertainty: What does it really mean?

  • by Meg-John Barker
  • 19 April
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An important idea that I’ve come across in various contexts is that of embracing uncertainty. I liked it so much that I ended each chapter...
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Relationship conflict and the community of selves

  • by Meg-John Barker
  • 3 April
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I came across a great example this morning in a paper by my friend and colleague Trevor Butt which I thought could be very usefully...
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Oliver Burkeman and the future of self-help

  • by Meg-John Barker
  • 26 February
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Last week I gave a talk on self-help books to literature students at UEA and, thanks to the marvellous B. J. Epstein, I had the...
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Media reporting of sexuality: The importance of framing the debate

  • by Meg-John Barker
  • 25 February
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In this post I reflect on my frequent experience of being contacted by programme-makers and journalists to engage in ‘debates’ about gender and sexuality. I...
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Valentine’s Day Video

  • by Meg-John Barker
  • 13 February
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This year the Open University helped me to make a video about my thoughts on Valentine’s Day (a version of this blog post which I...
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Rewriting the Rules of Valentine’s Day

  • by Meg-John Barker
  • 6 February
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There’s an interview with me about Valentine’s Day over on The Sorority. What do you think about Valentines Day? I think that the idea of...
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What can we all learn about sex from The Sessions?

  • by Meg-John Barker
  • 28 January
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I urge you to go and see the movie, The Sessions, which is currently out in cinemas. Not only is this a quietly beautiful and...
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New Year Resolutions

  • by Meg-John Barker
  • 31 December
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New Year is a time when we often consider resolving to do things differently in the year to come. However, for many reasons, making New...
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Feminism and (non)monogamy

  • by Meg-John Barker
  • 16 December
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I did a podcast interview last week for Feminist Current about whether monogamy was compatible with feminism. The podcast deals with some of the historical...
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