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Christmas presence: Being present over the festive season

  • by Meg-John Barker
  • 25 December
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In Charles Dickens‘s classic festive story, A Christmas Carol (and in the Muppet version of same which is compulsory viewing in our house at this...
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Mental Health – Beyond the 1 in 4

  • by Meg-John Barker
  • 16 October
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This long read covers what we know about mental health, and why I think that distinguishing between those who are, and are not, mentally ill,...
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Mindfulness: A strategy for social engagement?

  • by Meg-John Barker
  • 14 September
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People who read my blogs and other writing will know that one of the things I’m heavily into is  mindfulness. This is, broadly speaking, the practice...
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The gap that lovers must fill: What exactly is a ‘conventional’ relationship?

  • by Meg-John Barker
  • 24 August
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The common idea of the conventional relationship is of a monogamous, long-term relationship between a man and a woman, based on them falling in love,...
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What’s wrong with heteronormativity?

  • by Meg-John Barker
  • 17 August
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This post that I wrote way back in 2011 is proving popular on my blog lately, so I’m sharing it again along with a page...
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Mindlessness, Mindfulness and the Riots

  • by Meg-John Barker
  • 17 August
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Following the news reports over the last few days I, like many people, have struggled over what, if any, response I can make that would...
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Writing about writing

  • by Meg-John Barker
  • 15 August
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Last week somebody sent me an email which really pleased me. They are writing a non-fiction book and asked for my advice about this. For...
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Multiple (perspectives on) Orgasms

  • by Meg-John Barker
  • 16 June
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This is an early post by me on the topic of orgasms. I explore this in more depth in my books Enjoy Sex (How, When...
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Sexualization and Gender stereotyping? One response to the Bailey review

  • by Meg-John Barker
  • 7 June
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An early blog post by me on sexualization and gender stereotyping: topics dealt with in more depth in this paper, and The Psychology of Sex....
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Happily Ever After? Relationship Diversity

  • by Meg-John Barker
  • 29 May
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In 2011 The London Natural History Museum put on a series of events in connection with its Sexual Nature exhibition. I spoke about relationship diversity at the...
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