As somebody who has researched with BDSM communities for over a decade, and written about the Fifty Shades books, I thought it’d be useful to...
I’m stoked that I was voted in the top 100 sex blogger superheroes this year by the kinkly website. So great to hear that people are enjoying...
Since Rewriting the Rules was published I sometimes get asked to do email interviews with journalists on various topics. Some of these get published in...
This post applies the concept of consent to all relationships in various ways. This topic is taken up in a lot more detail on my...
Something I’m very proud of being part of recently was putting together this LGBT manifesto with the LGBT consortium. The idea is to have a...
Open relationships: Applying the concept of openness to all relationships in various ways. Content warning: relationship conflict and abusive relationships are touched on briefly in...
This post explores what trigger warnings open up, and what they close down, using the approach explored in more depth in my book The Psychology...
Yesterday I ran my training session on kink/BDSM (bondage and discipline, dominance and submission, and sadomasochism) to a group of sex and relationship therapists and it...
I was late in the day to the Blurred Lines phenomenon. At a conference where I was talking about gender and sexual consent a colleague...
Following my last post I’m very pleased to report that, on Friday, I was the proud recipient of the Erotic Award in the academic category....