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Slow Relating

  • by Meg-John Barker
  • 21 April
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There is so much to do, there is so little time, we must go slowly – Taoist saying Something I’ve been reflecting on a lot...
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New interview about feminist comics

  • by Meg-John Barker
  • 13 April
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I find it strange and amusing that since I stopped being an academic last summer I may well have been involved in more papers in...
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How to start writing

  • by Meg-John Barker
  • 9 April
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The awesome folks at JKP just interviewed me about my thoughts on getting started with writing, which was a great chance for me to share...
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Trauma and cPTSD 101

  • by Meg-John Barker
  • 6 April
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In recent blog posts and podcasts I have been increasingly weaving a trauma-informed perspective into my writing. This post gives an overview of trauma and...
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Taking ourselves seriously

  • by Meg-John Barker
  • 5 April
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Another plural blog post written a short while before Covid-19 hit, but relevant more than ever now. This time my serious selves, Max and Jonathan,...
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Rewriting the Rules on relationship book list

  • by Meg-John Barker
  • 2 April
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Thanks so much to the folks at wiki.ezvid.com for including Rewriting the Rules in their recent list of recommended books about relationships. It’s particularly good...
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The master’s tools and mental health: We can’t get out of our struggles the same way we got into them

  • by Meg-John Barker
  • 1 April
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Something hit me recently: one of those things that must have been staring me in the face for so long but somehow I never saw...
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Zones of stuck patterns

  • by Meg-John Barker
  • 27 March
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I’m thinking a lot at the moment about how we can shift our stuck patterns and habits. I’m weaving together various ideas and applying them...
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Stuck in alone or together: An opportunity to address stuck patterns

  • by Meg-John Barker
  • 26 March
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A few months ago a therapist on twitter said something along the lines of: ‘When a relationship gets tough whether you break-up or stay together...
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Addressing stuck patterns when stuck in alone

  • by Meg-John Barker
  • 26 March
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This blog post outlines ways in which we might address our relationship patterns if we’re stuck in alone during Covid-19. There’s a post discussing the...
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