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Sapiosexuality

  • by Meg-John Barker
  • 31 August
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I was recently interviewed about sapiosexuality for a Cosmo article on the topic. You can read that article here, and my full interview below. What...
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Plural mindfulness / mindful plurality

  • by Meg-John Barker
  • 17 August
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In this post two of my selves, Ara and Max, discuss how plurality can unlock features of mindfulness which can otherwise be difficult to access...
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Plurality and trauma – 2 – practices

  • by Meg-John Barker
  • 10 August
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In this post my two most studious parts – James and Beastie – return to revisit the question of plurality and what we have learnt...
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Plurality and trauma – 1 – theory

  • by Meg-John Barker
  • 10 August
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In this post my two most studious parts – James and Beastie – return to revisit the question of plurality and what we have learnt...
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Accompanying vs. abandoning ourselves

  • by Meg-John Barker
  • 20 July
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During these last months of addressing my stuck patterns and trauma responses, one piece that’s become increasingly important has been the idea of accompanying rather...
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Trans and sex

  • by Meg-John Barker
  • 6 July
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I recently took part in an Instagram Q&A for Sh! women’s sex store all about trans and sex. I thought I’d share my responses here....
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Holding multiple possible stories through our experience

  • by Meg-John Barker
  • 30 June
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Back in the early days of 2020 I met up with a friend for coffee to talk about whether I might support him in some...
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Caught in-between: The messy middle of shifting stuck patterns

  • by Meg-John Barker
  • 25 June
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Note: This post was written towards the end of May. Since then the challenges out in the world, and in my relationships with myself and...
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Plural selves, queer and comics

  • by Meg-John Barker
  • 19 June
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I’m so excited that my second article about my relationship with comics is out in the world, in the Journal of Graphic Novels and Comics...
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Chronic Shame

  • by Meg-John Barker
  • 15 June
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Lately the focus of my learning has shifted from trauma in general to one element specifically: shame. As I’ve mentioned here before, toxic levels of...
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