This post from 2012 introduces some ideas about Rubin’s sex hierarchy which I write about in more depth in The Psychology of Sex. For the Sexual Cultures conference...
Arianne Cohen wrote a very interesting article last week about the range of ways of managing non-monogamous relationships that people have. I’m quoted in the article as...
Update (2021): You can now by Betty Martin’s excellent book about the Wheel of Consent: The Art of Giving and Receiving here. Highly recommended. Content note: Includes...