Now that our new book, How to Understand Your Relationships, is out in the world (the last book in our How to Understand Your… series), Alex...
In the weeks leading up to #IDOConsent on 30th November I’m sharing a few posts dealing with consent and non-consent at all levels: in wider...
This blog post outlines ways in which we might address our relationship patterns if we’re stuck in with others during Covid-19. There’s a post discussing...
This post overviews tensions between trans-exclusionary radical feminists and trans feminists, and discusses how non-binary gender can be regarded as feminist, exploring what non-binary feminism...
This blog post has been bubbling away for a while. I want to write about the process that I’ve found helpful when struggling with difficult...
Open relationships: Applying the concept of openness to all relationships in various ways. Content warning: relationship conflict and abusive relationships are touched on briefly in...
Yesterday I ran some training on relationship therapy for counsellors which involved exploring various different approaches and techniques. I was reminded of a chapter that...
This is more of a personal post than most that I write but I’m including it here rather than in the offline journal where I...
When I woke up this morning a lot of people had shared a link on facebook to the story of a conflict between two people...
I’ve blogged before on the tension between kindness and honesty: how, often, when we try to communicate honestly we sacrifice kindness, and when we try...