In the weeks leading up to #IDOConsent on 30th November I’m sharing a few posts dealing with consent and non-consent at all levels: in wider...
This blog post outlines ways in which we might address our relationship patterns if we’re stuck in with others during Covid-19. There’s a post discussing...
This post overviews tensions between trans-exclusionary radical feminists and trans feminists, and discusses how non-binary gender can be regarded as feminist, exploring what non-binary feminism...
This blog post has been bubbling away for a while. I want to write about the process that I’ve found helpful when struggling with difficult...
Open relationships: Applying the concept of openness to all relationships in various ways. Content warning: relationship conflict and abusive relationships are touched on briefly in...
Yesterday I ran some training on relationship therapy for counsellors which involved exploring various different approaches and techniques. I was reminded of a chapter that...
This is more of a personal post than most that I write but I’m including it here rather than in the offline journal where I...
When I woke up this morning a lot of people had shared a link on facebook to the story of a conflict between two people...
I’ve blogged before on the tension between kindness and honesty: how, often, when we try to communicate honestly we sacrifice kindness, and when we try...
Something that has been a live issue for me recently – both in my own life and in conversations with friends – is how we...