Yesterday I ran some training on relationship therapy for counsellors which involved exploring various different approaches and techniques. I was reminded of a chapter that...
This is more of a personal post than most that I write but I’m including it here rather than in the offline journal where I...
When I woke up this morning a lot of people had shared a link on facebook to the story of a conflict between two people...
Last Friday I was very privileged to be part of the TEDx Brighton 2013 event where I gave a talk which tried to summarise my...
Recently Diabetes UK have been running an advertising campaign that sits uneasily with me and with a lot of my friends. In their posters they...
I’ve blogged before on the tension between kindness and honesty: how, often, when we try to communicate honestly we sacrifice kindness, and when we try...
Something that has been a live issue for me recently – both in my own life and in conversations with friends – is how we...
This post discusses polarisation, a theme that is covered in more depth in my book The Psychology of Sex. The last couple of days I’ve been...
The inevitability of treating partners as things? Romance in Ruby Sparks (and why I like the ending)
Recently I got round to watching last year’s Ruby Sparks on DVD. I’d been looking forward to watching this film for some time because it...
An important idea that I’ve come across in various contexts is that of embracing uncertainty. I liked it so much that I ended each chapter...