The Second Circle with Franki Cookney: Why is it s...

The Second Circle with Franki Cookney: Why is it so hard to feel good?

Thanks so much to Franki Cookney for inviting me into conversation on The Second Circle podcast about bad sex. You can access the episode here.

One in eight women and one in twenty men say they lack enjoyment during sex.
For all the conflicting messages we get around sex, most of us know that on some level we’re supposed to enjoy it. But there are a lot of things that can stand in our way. 

Further resources

Meg-John Barker is the author of a number of popular books on sex, gender, and relationships, including Queer: A Graphic History, How To Understand Your Gender, Enjoy Sex (How, When, and IF You Want To), Rewriting the Rules, The Psychology of Sex, and The Secrets of Enduring Love. They have also written a number of books for scholars and counsellors on these topics, drawing on their own research and therapeutic practice.